The Secrets of Lost Cats

Have you ever stopped to read a lost cat poster? I seem to gravitate towards them even sharing photos of posters on social media thinking that everything will work out or maybe it already has and kitty is safe at home. The hope is that they just forgot to take down the poster after their cat was found. One time I called the number on a poster after recognizing an orange tabby I had seen from his photo. The person on the other end thanked me for calling and said that he had not heard from anyone else. We chatted for a bit and he told me that the cat had belonged to his dad and accidentally got out. Unfortunately the cat had disappeared from my backyard as soon as he showed himself, but I left the owners with some tips on how to find their cat. Sadly, I don’t believe this kitty ever made it home.

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I will admit that’s where it ended, I tried not to dwell on the issue or why people let their cats out in the first place, as that way madness lies. Therapist Dr. Nancy Davidson, author of the book The Secrets of Lost Cats takes the lost cat poster to the next level as she delves into the stories and people behind them. After having had to create one for her cat Zak who goes missing, Zak is found after a very interesting rescue not far from Nancy, she goes on a seven-year journey of analyzing lost cat posters she comes across, reaching out to the creators offering a sympathetic ear and advice.

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There are some cat posters created with lots of thought and others that seem to be thrown together in haste. What type of person creates a particular type of poster and do some people seem to be more concerned for their cats than others? There were stories that had me turning the pages in anticipation, with fingers crossed, of what the outcome would be and others that left me feeling sad. A great deal of cats who are lost simply never make it home. Unfortunately it is still a world where cats are not viewed or valued in the same way as dogs, cats are still seen as disposable (they are the number one animal in shelters and on the streets) and not every cat that goes missing has a human who cares to put the effort in to looking for them.

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There are those that go to extraordinary lengths to find their cats, like hiring a pet detective or employing the services of a pet psychic, not giving up until all avenues have been exhausted.  Image – The Secrets of Lost Cats

One story, demonstrating both the ugly and good side of human nature, that really stood out was about a cat named Shelby who goes missing from an apartment in New York City. It is an interesting lesson in empathy, or lack of, as well as the kindness of strangers and the reality that sometimes those who we least expect to disappoint us, do.

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What lengths would you go to bring your lost cat home? Image – The Secrets of Lost Cats

The Secrets of Lost Cats is as much about the human experience as it is about the cats, the relationships we have with them and each other. It is about the emotional lives of people behind the posters and how far some will go to be reunited with a cat considered to be a family member. The book asks and will leave you thinking “What would you do for love?”. The other side is it may convince you that keeping your cats inside, or giving them access to a safe outdoor enclosure, is better than going through the worry that comes with creating your own lost cat poster.

The Secrets of Lost Cats can be purchased at online retailers like Amazon and is a thoughtful read to end the summer with.

10 thoughts on “The Secrets of Lost Cats

  1. My cats stay inside. I have never given them the full taste of being outdoors unsupervised. I had an indoor-outdoor cat once; when he was missing for a day to days I couldn’t stop worrying. Just can’t go through that heartache again!

    • I know my cats were always indoor, when we lived in a house they had huge picture windows, a screened in porch…they were happy. Spinner had slipped out only once in front of me & thankfully to a fenced backyard where I grabbed him quickly. That gave me a heart attack! Catio’s are a great alternative to keep them happy & safe or, harness training & taking them for walks.

      • My two current cats came from places that made me sign an agreement I’d keep them indoors: 1) the local humane society, and 2) a rescue cat organization. It was no big deal for me because we had a screened in porch and both cats weren’t used to going outside anyway. I like the idea of knowing where they are, no fleas, no other cats beating them up, they won’t be coyote food and not being hit by cars! Peace of mind indeed!

    • I don’t like seeing the posters either, I always hope the cats have made it home.

      I have seen something like this, but I would be more concerned about them being safe for the cat as a collar should always have a release on it. Simple scrunchies are dangerous. I would love for all cats to be indoors but so many, feral & strays, don’t have a choice.

  2. After years of trying, I think we have finally convinced Kommando Kitty that she doesn’t want to escape. Her sister has never shown a particular interest in getting out. I would be devastated if we lost either of them.

  3. I so want to read this book! Thank you so much for spreading the word…I share your fascination with lost cat posters. Also reminds me of The Blog of Otis (no longer active?) and the lost cat posters they would use to highlight the importance of keeping your cat indoors!

    • I feel like the posters find me lol it does make he really sad & frustrated. I wish people would keep cats inside. I am not familiar with the Blog of Otis but looked it up. I saw the posts about the cat posters as well as that Otis had passed away a number of years ago 😦 So many lost cat posters but what a great message the blog had.

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